Books

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
Daniel Goldman
THE HEART OF PARENTING
John Gottman, Ph.D.
Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child
RAISING YOU EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
Jeanne Segal, Ph.D
A Practical Guide: A Hands-On Program for Harnessing the Power of Your Instincts and Emotions
THE LANGUAGE OF EMOTION
Karla Mclaren
UNDERSTANDING MYSELF: A Kids's Guide to Intense Emotions and Strong Feelings Dr. Mary Lamia

Bibliography

Bar-Levav, Reuven, MD. Thinking in the Shadow of Feelings. New York: Simon & Schuster, Inc., 1988.
Benoit, Cecil R. When Love is Not Enough. Brentwood, TN: JM Productions. 1989.
Crary, Elizabeth. Kids Can Cooperate: a practical guide to teaching problem solving.  Seattle: Parenting Press, 1984.
Frey, William H. Crying: the mystery of tears. Minneapolis, MN: Winston Press, 1985
Goelitz, Jeffrey. The Ultimate Kid: level of learning that make a difference. Boulder Creek, CA: University of the Trees Press, 1986.
Gottman, John. The Heart of Parenting: raising an emotionally intelligent child. New York: Simon & Schuster 1977.
Hendricks, Gay and Thomas B. Roberts. The Second Centering Book. New York: Prentice Hall Press, 1977.
Hold, John. How Children Fail. Merloyd Lawrence Book, 1982.
Jaffel, Ronald. Parenting by Heart. New York: Addison-Wesley Publishing Co, Inc., 1991.
Kaufman, Gershen and Raphael, Lev. Stick Up for Yourself!, Minneapolis, MN: Free Spirit Press, 1990.
Kline, Peter. The Everyday Genius. Great Ocean Publishers, Inc. 1989.
Kreisberg, Seth. Transforming Power: domination, empowerment and education. State University of New York Press, 1992.
LeShan, Eda. When Your Child Drive You Crazy. New York: St. Martin’s Press, 1985.
Luvmour, Jesette and Sambhava Luvmour. Natural Learning Rhythms: how and when children learn. Berkely, CA: Celestial Arts, 1994.
McLaren, Karla. The Language of Emotions: What Your Feelings Are Trying to Tell You. Sounds True, Boulder, CO,  2010. 
Oaklander, Violet. Windows to Our Children. Gestalt Journal, 1988
Rosenbaum, Jean and McAuliffe, Lutie. What is Fear? An Introduction to Feelings. New York: Prentice-Hall Inc., 1972.
Segal, Jeanne. Raising Your Emotional Intelligence. New York: Henry Holt and Co, 1997.
Smalin, Nancy. Loving Your Child is Not Enough. New York: Penguin Books, 1987.
Vail, Priscilla L. Emotion: The On Off Switch for Learning. Rosemount, N.J.: Modern Learning Press, 1994.

Links

Karla Mclaren   www.karlamclaren.com
I love all of Karla's books and resources.  Especially useful for working with people who are highly empathetic (empaths) and highly sensitive

check out many of Karla's YouTube videos
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hVjltYNgU6s&feature=colike

THE LANGUAGE OF EMOTIONS:  What Your Feelings Are Trying to Tell You
http://karlamclaren.com/emotional-vocabulary-page/
http://karlamclaren.com/is-it-a-feeling-or-is-it-an-emotion/

Dr. Lynne Namka
Licensed Psychologist
http://www.angriesout.com

Brene Brown
Social worker study on shame and vulnerability 
www.brenebrown.com